Living Into the Truth: A Daughter's Journey of Discovery

Living Into the Truth: A Daughter's Journey of Discovery is a memoir by Annette Marquis that explores the author's quest to uncover her family's hidden past and, in doing so, discover her own identity. The memoir begins with Marquis's childhood, growing up in a Catholic family with a complex history. She describes her early years, marked by the presence of a deceased father she later discovers is not her biological parent and an adoptive father who she later discovers is. The author recounts her struggles with her identity, particularly her red hair, which becomes a symbol of the mysteries surrounding her origins.

Marquis explores the theme of living with secrets, both those kept from her and those she kept herself. She describes the emotional toll of hiding her true self and the liberation that came with eventually living openly as a lesbian. The author draws parallels between her own experiences of secrecy and those of her parents, examining how hidden truths shaped their lives and relationships.

The memoir delves into the author's adult life, including her relationships, career, and ongoing quest for truth about her family. Marquis describes her use of DNA testing to confirm her biological parentage, a pivotal moment in her journey of self-discovery.

Throughout the book, Marquis reflects on the nature of family, identity, and truth. She examines how societal expectations and personal fears can lead to the creation and perpetuation of secrets, and the impact these secrets have across generations.

The book also touches on broader historical events and social changes, including the polio epidemic, the advent of DNA testing, and the evolving acceptance of LGBTQ+ individuals in American society. She uses these contexts to frame her personal story within a larger narrative of social progress and change.

Living Into the Truth concludes with Marquis's reflections on forgiveness, acceptance, and the importance of living authentically. She describes how uncovering her family's secrets allowed her to better understand herself and her parents, leading to a sense of peace and self-acceptance.

This memoir is not just a personal account but also an exploration of universal themes such as the search for identity, the complexities of family relationships, and the courage required to live truthfully. Marquis's story offers insights into the human capacity for growth, resilience, and the transformative power of embracing one's true self.
 

Reviews

Whoever thought that a memoir could read like a good mystery! That’s what happens in this beautiful identity journey which traverses a life lived inside the depths of not one but several disturbing and life-altering questions. Among them: who is Annette’s real father, and really, who is she? Who are the betrayers, and can one forgive the betrayals?

Annette Marquis weaves the answers into a tapestry of fierce questions that build to a tender and insightful climax. It’s a story that becomes a powerful model for people seeking to understand and proclaim the Truth of our own Beings. Read this, weep and rejoice with her. But Read This!

-- Anne-Marie Oomen

Anne-Marie Oomen is the author of numerous memoirs and other works including the award winning, As Long As I Know You: The Mom Book from University of Georgia Press. Winner of The Sue William Silverman Prize for Creative Nonfiction.